One of the questions parents always ask is, “Why am I here? My child has the problem, not me.” Substance use, abuse, or addiction is a family affair. It affects the substance user, and their family. Our experience and multiple studies have shown the effectiveness of family involvement in helping the substance user recover, as well as helping the family recover. Participants will learn how the family is affected, recognize the effectiveness of family involvement, and utilize tools to bring sanity back to the family.